But does she have a caring heart?
I had someone tell me a long time ago: “you will never be a leader, you care too much and this is weakness.”
It was a woman who said that. A woman telling another woman she can’t do something, probably because of immaturity, or spite or envy. To this day for me, this is an abomination. Remember this short conversation, I will come back to it later in this healing letter.
It might seem for many decades that we are living in a toxic patriarchy, now infused with strategically placed images of broligarchy figures, the so called “wise-guys” of tech. But I continue to ponder why we as women have endured it for so much time. Because we did and we still consciously accept and replicate among ourselves the same heartless behaviours that fostered the unbalance we now see in the world.
The truth is the feminine shadow is currently extremely strong. The rise of the toxic masculinity is just a balancing response. Knowing this, how about changing this for the better?
This year is definitely going to be different and, in many aspects, stronger than 2024. In changes, transformations and also unbelievable recklessness. More (aggressive) manly than balanced. But this is where we are as individuals and as a collective.
In astrology, 3 major planets are changing their element and polarity, from feminine to masculine energies. Uranus, Neptune and of course, the star of the season, Pluto, are migrating taking their first steps into uncharted territories.
We’ve never experienced fully, intentionally, Pluto in Aquarius energy as a collective, as the dwarf planet was discovered in early 1930 and it was then in the sign of Cancer, so real-time analysis were not possible. Uranus is bringing its major unpredictability and innovation spirit to whatever Pluto is demanding or uncovering for humanity. Neptune is adding its borderless energy in a very spiritual year of 9, dissolving paths and destinies while enhancing both imagination and delusion. Saturn is a seriousness, structural sigil to whatever Neptune wants to dream more of.
Their tango back and forth over the 1st degree of masculine elements and signs is no easy experience.
This spring might seem unusual, not ordinary, a bit unpredictable. Like an uprooting of some sort that needs us to awaken and unite more consciously. Spring and summer bring forth immense power and aggression, indubitable energy, but also…a chance for guiding this new start with the heart, not the mind.
I see this moment like a special light taking us by the hand and guiding us from the start of summer. Jupiter, the great amplificator will move sign from curious, expansive and superficial Gemini to caring Crab. And it will stay there until June 2026, amplifying whatever he finds in the sign of emotionality and intuition. The good and the bad. But let’s focus on the good for now, as we are a bunch of conscious women and we understand energies and the world on a higher level.
For me, the Crab is truly the special feminine sign that is most connected with multiple realms. The Crab feels all the feels and ensures a deeper understanding of The Caring Principle and why today’s world really needs a comeback on it.
With Jupiter in Crab, we will build the homes we need in our souls, families and workplaces. The darker it might get around us, the cosier should get within us.
So you see, Jupiter, as magnifier, might just be what we need to tone a bit the year down and start a very important wave: the rising of exceptionally Caring Feminine Leaders. I do believe new women leaders and healers will appear or become more visible, and definitely rise to meet this great occasion of building a world that cares more than it destroys. Time will tell if these months starting June will bring about the women we need to move forward with more grace, acceptance, gratitude and consciousness. The strong ones. The caring ones. The kind ones. Because being kind and caring and devoted is actually a great achievement and quality in a leader. Which reminds me to go back to the start of this message and thank myself that I never took advice from the people that wanted me to fail. As a leader, colleague, friend, woman.
So if you are starting or envisioning your own rising this year, here it is, as per usual, a prompt list to help your journey become more focused but also more intentional:
Do you feel like you deserve a bigger role in the world?
What is the real intention behind your pursuit in leadership, career, business, entrepreneurship, etc? The feeling you weave the entire cloth with. The good leader has a higher meaning than money or success.
How strong and vibrant is your support system: family, partner, friends, etc? Do you feel connected and emotionally engaged with them? A good leader needs a good ecosystem.
What is the source of your higher calling? Can you think of doing more with your project or job, with higher meaning and larger impact?
How emotionally regulated are you? To be a good leader means knowing your own needs and fulfilling them. You are the energy and intention you bring to a space.
How are you practising what you preach? Kindness and care are verbs.
It will never be clearer than in this moment: abundance starts within the soul. And this is the time for good women leaders to rise to the occasion.
Until next time, thank you for being here and reading my weekly healing letters.
Happy New Lunar Year, my dears! The energies of 2025 are only now starting to be charged into the Earth realm. So take it easy and inhale, exhale! This is a journey of recharging until the Spring Equinox. Take it all in and absorb the positives you need to create the best with what 2025 has in store for your.
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Xoxo,
Roxana
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